QUEST Fall Semester 2011 Entry #25: "IDENTITY: Who Do You Think You Are?"

This past Friday, I had the opportunity to share on the topic of IDENTITY: WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE? The issue of identity is a struggle for most of us, but particularly for college students and young adults. With the demands and pressures to succeed and to know your next step, it can be daunting to figure out who you are and where you are going in life. Before we find our identity in our career path and the greater society, discovering our identity in Christ is pivotal; it bleeds into every thing that we do.

Ephesians 4:22-24 says this:

"You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness."

Too often, young adults like you are told to stop sinning, stop compromising, stop acting a fool...stop, stop, stop. Although it may be said in love, the "stop" instructions are not single-handedly helping anyone to grow. It's like a stop light. As the driver, you understand that when the light is red, you should stop. But, there is a time when the light will turn green and you have to go. In the context of this scripture, it is not just stopping and putting off your old self. But, it is also proceeding to put on the new self. This new self is not about what others want or desire you to be; it is to be more and more like Christ.

Your identity in Christ is marked by your life of righteousness and holiness. In other words, being right before God and living a blameless life is a sign that you have identified yourself with Christ. Being right before God does not mean perfection. It means living a life of character and integrity. If you mess up, you own up to it and with the help of God, repent and change according to what the Scriptures say about you. You have already been forgiven on the Cross, but it is accepting this forgiveness and turning to God daily!

At the last Young Adults Live, each participant stood up tall and read a portion of scripture identifying who they are in Christ. It was a sight to behold! Rather than being identified by culture, young adults proclaimed their identity in the Christ they serve and who loves them.

I remember hearing a story by gospel artist Vickie Winans many years ago. She mentioned she was in an elevator and overheard someone say, "That Vickie, she thinks she is all 'dat!" Vickie responded, "I know that I am all 'dat!" At first glance, this response may seem arrogant and self-serving. But, look deeper. If you don't know you are all that, you will have a world defining who you are. Who do you think you are?



Blog Entry by:
Ryan Faison (QUEST/YAM Director)

QUEST Fall Semester 2011 Entry #24: "Championing Your Midterms!"

Championing Your Midterms!
Tips for knocking your midterms out of the park!
by Claudia Batson

Your Midterm exams are just around the corner and you might not be sure of: what you know, what you don’t know or whether you can ace those exams. Well fear not! Here are some helpful and proven (they’ve worked for me) tips to help you all prepare for and "knock those exams right outta the park!"

1) Prayer- 1 John 5:13-15
Yes, I know you might be wondering, “How can prayer help you prepare for your exams?” Without a doubt, I assure you prayer works for me every time! God wants to see us succeed in all that we do and prayer assists with this by first helping us to calm down and prepare our minds for the revision of lecture notes/practicing math problems (for those tough math classes). Pray with a specific purpose, asking God for His divine intervention in helping you focus on the course subject as a whole and then guiding you through your notes, drawing your attention to particular topics that you may generally overlook. Prayer helps to set the stage.

2) Revision/Study- 2 Timothy 2:15
Yes, “Studying”- You just can’t get away from it, but remember to be practical with it. If you’re like me, stuck in the paper/pen era and you like to see things written down, then get some paper and pen and draw/write your study schedule. If you fall in the lot of a modern day computer wiz (almost everyone) then use one of those savvy tech tools to prepare a study timetable on your computer with all those cool reminders and what not. Prepare a timetable with realistic goals. This can be achieved by first asking “How many hours can I commit to studying per night/day?” Give yourself a 1-hour limit on each course/ subject matter/lecture. Give yourself 15 mins breaks in between each session and stick with it! Make sure to include these items on your study schedule: Revision of Lecture Notes; Practice Questions; Extra-Reading, Break-Time. Once you’ve completed all tasks each day/week (and you were discipline without deviating) then you should reward yourself, e.g. - a sweet treat, a movie, games, or whatever your fancy.

3A) Interaction/Communication- Proverbs 15:22
Yes, be brave and seek counsel, advice, and ask questions from your lecturers/professors via direct contact (make appointment during their office hours), phone or e-mail (popular method). Do this without delay…either after class or while revising your notes. Asking questions and communicating with your lecturers/professors not only helps you get a better understanding of a topic, but you may get tips and ideas on what and how to study for their exams. Avoid shying away from contacting them with your questions or concerns because not only will they provide you with answers to questions, they might just end up giving you tips and ideas on what to, and how to study for their exams. Communicating with your lecturers/professors helps them to become acquainted with you and shows them that you are interested in performing well in their course. This will help you in the long run.

3B) Interaction- 1 Thessalonians 5:11
Yes, be bold and form a ‘serious’ study group- Set goals and standards for yourself and your group. You all can successfully achieve good grades when you hold each other accountable. For example, if your study schedule is focused on a particular chapter/lecture, ask the members to come prepared: read through the chapters/lectures for themselves and bring at least 2 questions either from what they read and might not have understood; questions they might have found online about the topic/subject or questions they formulated on their own, based on their understanding of the topic/subject. In this way, a challenge is brought to everyone and you are bound to have a productive session each time.

4) Peace- John 14:27 and Isaiah 41:10
Yes, more prayer. Pray asking God to remove all fear and give you peace for each exam. Becoming anxious and frustrated will only cause you to become distracted and you may forget everything you revised, causing you to not do as well as you anticipated. Remember, you will perform well, once you have prepared well.
Deuteronomy 28:13

It is God’s will for us to be on top of every task we undertake, but we need to make sure we are ready. Therefore, we are in place and filled with the necessary knowledge and understanding ready for him to intervene and use us to declare His glory to the world. So go ahead and represent God’s glory to the world in the way you handle and excel in your studies!

Blog Entry By: Claudia Batson (QUEST/YAM Hospitality Leader)

Claudia Batson is currently functioning as a leader in Quest/YAM Hospitality Ministry. She has been heavily committed and involved in Youth Ministry: leading, training, mentoring and serving in International missions for eight years. She stems from an academic background initially centered on Veterinary Medicine studies at the Royal Veterinary College, University of London; this later transitioned into her focus of Biomedical Science-Pharmacological Sciences concentration at the University of Medicine and Dentistry of New Jersey. Claudia is currently evolving her focus to specifically dedicate time for spiritual development, mentorship and fellowship with young adults as this has become one of her primary missions in the fulfillment of her heavenly calling.

QUEST Fall Semester 2011 Entry #24: "Break My Heart"

What an amazing time we had this past Friday at Young Adults Live! It was a wonderful opportunity to find out who we are in Christ, the art of true worship and the ability to love others, through the testimonies of a mission trip to Haiti.

Bob Pierce, founder of World Vision, made the profound statement:

“Let my heart be broken with the things that break the heart of God!”

That one quote has been utilized as a prayer by many and most recently by me. All around the world poverty is consuming our families, children are being abandoned, and human trafficking is becoming a norm, while we worry about not having up-to-date technology, about the male/female that isn’t giving us the attention we desire, about the constant need for more money, about the things in life that are just that, THINGS.

I don’t want to trivialize the need or want for great things because that is a natural desire, but what is God’s desire for us? Matthew 6:33 clearly tells us: “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.” How can He use you to impact someone? How can you change your environment by noticing the details? Is there something God wants to do with you that He can’t do because you are too focused on the wrong things?

Come into agreement with me today and say: “Lord today instead of worrying about what I want, let my heart be broken with the things that break your heart!”

Blog Entry By:

Esmeralda Lopez

QUEST/YAM Leader, Life Group Leader

Check out Entry #12 for Esmeralda's blog entry entitled "Can I Really Move Mountains?"

QUEST Fall Semester 2011 Entry #23: "The Countdown"

The next two blog entries will be dedicated to the upcoming Young Adults Live (YAL) on Friday, September 23, 2011 at the Christ Church East Campus (68 Church Street, Montclair, NJ). The purpose of YAL was birthed out of the need for college students and young adults to interact with Scripture together, fellowship, share testimonies and grow in the Lord. Too often, this generation seems too busy and do not have time to interact with one another. If they do, it is by social media outlets such as Facebook, Twitter, and this blog. YAL is one of the ways the ministry desires to connect young adults together for the purpose of reaching their full potential in Jesus Christ.

In the past, YAL has featured speaking on numerous topics on choices, relationships, and being bold and courageous. This time, we will focus on the topic of identity. Without giving too much away, discovering one's identity can appear to be a daunting task. With the pressures and demands in our culture today, we can become stressed to have everything together and already solidifying our direction and purpose in life. But, before we react to a world crying out for you to know who you are, we must respond to the Word of God that says, "Do you know who you are?"

Rather than just listening, this YAL will be interactive with time for us to grow and develop as a community of young adults. I encourage you to join us! For more information on the upcoming YAL, check out www.facebook.com/questyam under events. It's the final countdown -- 2 days!

Blog Entry By:
Ryan Faison (QUEST/YAM Director)

QUEST Fall Semester 2011 Entry #22: "If Jesus Were in College"

Author Bruce Main wrote a book in 2002 entitled "If Jesus Were a Sophomore: Discipleship for College Students". In the book, Main speaks of the life of Jesus and how specific behaviors of devotion, study, and interaction with others were shaped in His early adult years. In his introduction, Main states the following:

" If Jesus were a sophomore, freshman, junior or senior, I believe he would use these years to cultivate lifestyle patterns that are consistent with the values of God's Kingdom. These lifestyle patterns would develop a firm foundation for a life of commitment and service to God." [p.6]

After reading this book in its entirety, I thought Bruce Main developed some constructive and introspective questions to ask regarding our own life patterns that we may be developing. Before Jesus' public ministry of preaching the good news and performing miracles (among other profound ministry), there was a private devotional life pattern. Here we find Jesus, the Son of God, committing Himself to draw closer to His Father through tangible acts of love. He did not wait for someone to keep Him accountable or challenge Him; He desired to seek His Father, even in the midst of the odds stacked up against Him.

In light of scripture and the insight from author Bruce Main, I wondered to myself, "If Jesus were a freshman, how would he act? What would He say? What would He devote His time and effort to? What would He say to college ministries, campus ministries, leaders and His professors? These questions follow the format of WWJD - What Would Jesus Do? But, in reality, the answers to these questions should mirror how we act and function on campus and in life.

In Acts 4:13, it says:

"When they saw the courage of Peter and John and realized that they were unschooled, ordinary men, they were astonished and they took note that these men had been with Jesus."

What a profound portion of Scripture! The people were not astonished by Peter and John's intellect or academic credentials; by most accounts, there were none to write home about. The people were not surprised by an extraordinary atrribute; they were considered ordinary. The people were astonished by the courage of these men and concluded that it was there because these two ordinary men had been with Jesus.

You may have started the Fall Semester and it may not be all roses. You may be having difficulty in an area or struggling. You may be excelling and surprised by all of your accomplishments thus far. No matter where you are, please note that it will not be your achievements and resume that will astonish people. But, when they see courage being exhibited in your life to live a life as Jesus would, there is no doubt you have been and are with Him. If Jesus were in college, He would draw ever closer to His Father, the God of all creation. As a college, international or graduate student, are you?

Blog Entry By:
Ryan Faison (QUEST/YAM Director)

NOTE: Join us this Friday, September 23, 2011 at 8 PM for Young Adults Live featuring Rockin' The Nations! Location: Christ Church East Campus, 68 Church Street, Montclair, New Jersey! Free Admission!

QUEST Fall Semester 2011 Entry #21: "Fighting Temptations"

As you journey through this Fall semester, you will find that many things may compete for your attention and focus. Unfortunately, some areas that call for our attention may not be for our edification. It could actually be used for our destruction. In the book of James, the following scripture speaks to this explicitly:

"But each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed." - James 1:14

Due to our own evil or unholy desires, we find ourselves involved in activities, thoughts, actions and behavior not befitting of a believer in the Lord Jesus Christ. If we are not careful, these one-time temptations become habitual patterns that bound us to a life of sin. These habitual patterns begin to define how we live our lives, interact with others and view ourselves. It was never the heart of God to see His children chained to sin. In fact, Scripture warns us:

Matthew 26:41 - "Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the body is weak."

If our prayer lives are not where they should be, we will notice a greater desire to sin and a propensity to keep sinning without a repentant heart. We begin to justify our behavior and become increasingly angry with others who keep us accountable and in love, get in our faces with our stuff. Whatever the temptation may be: greed, cursing, fornication, sex outside of marriage, drugs, drunkenness, masturbation, pornography, stealing, lying, cheating, laziness...we find ourselves trying in our own strength, to fight temptations. But, here is the good news:

1 Corinthians 10:13 - No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.

Thank God for a way out! He provides a way out! The question is are we seeking THE WAY for the way? You cannot fight temptations by yourself. You cannot do it in your own strength. Whatever you are facing right now that is knocking on your door, remember: THE WAY provides a WAY OUT! Temptation only enters when you answer the door.
 
Blog Entry by:
Ryan Faison (QUEST/YAM Director)

QUEST Fall Semester 2011 Entry #20: "The Strength"

So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. - Isaiah 41:10

The Scriptures remind us that the Lord is with us and will act on our behalf in strengthening us and helping us. In Isaiah 41:10, God declares that He would uphold with His right hand. Such words bring encouragement to the broken heart and strength to the weary soul. But, this reference of Scripture does not say that we will not go through trouble or tough circumstances. Scriptures do not promise that our lives will be devoid of problems and trials. However, the Word of God does submit to us that God is ready, willing and able to strengthen and help us during every season.

As you proceed in this semester, it is important to always be open to difficult times. We do not necessarily welcome it or like it, but trials have a way of strengthen areas of our lives that we tend to ignore or not pay much attention to. Trials provide the opportunity to depend on God and not ourselves. But, as with many things, this is easier said than done. It sounds good, but when you go through, as Bishop Joseph Garlington would say, the hallway of hell, it is not pleasant. Whatever it may be, know that God offers Himself as Your Strength. You don't have to be the strong one or always rock solid; God says that He is the Rock of Our Salvation. See the pattern...

This weekend, QUEST/YAM is excited to welcome Fresh Fire to the Christ Church East Campus (68 Church Street, Montclair, NJ) at 9:30 PM for their EP release. I mention this in our blog today because this concert is a great opportunity for fellowship and receiving ministry that reminds us of God's strength. The concert is only $5 and I welcome you to join us. Helen Rodriguez and Datin will also be a part of this concert. As you start this weekend, remember, GOD is THE STRENGTH.

Blog Entry By:
Ryan Faison (QUEST/YAM Director)

QUEST Fall Semester 2011 Entry #19: "Halftime"

Today is September 15, 2011 and we are halfway through the month. As a college student, you may be getting accustomed to your schedule and campus life. You have reviewed the syllabus for the class, received your assignments or your first exam, and may be forming study groups. Socially, you are vetting the activities on campus and figuring out which one you should be a part of. Spiritually (in your relationship with Christ), how are you doing these days? It is important to take a HALFTIME moment.

What is HALFTIME? When you are watching the football or basketball game, the referees mark HALFTIME. The teams take the time to go back to the locker room, review their strengths and weaknesses, chart how they will proceed and set up an action plan to execute. HALFTIME also provides the players with a time to recharge and refuel. Applying the halftime concept to your relationship with Christ, it is important to pause and recharge. HALFTIME allows you the opportunity to look at yourself, what you need to adjust and seek God  in prayer on how to get there.

Here are some HALFTIME questions to ask:

(1) In the last 15 days, what have I intentionally done to draw closer to God? If nothing, why not?
(2) In the last 15 days, what relationships have I formed and/or strengthened?
(3) In the last 15 days, have I learned more about myself? If so, what?
(4) In the last 15 days, how have I balanced my time among all of my responsibilities? If not, how can I improve? If so, what can I do to continue?
(5) In the next 15 days, what can I do to draw closer to God?

You can ask some introspective questions that will get you thinking about...you. Too often, we don't take the time to reflect and ask the hard questions. Let's not wait...let's take HALFTIME. And remember, when you call HALFTIME in your life, Jesus is right there to coach you along!

Let Him have all your worries and cares, for He is always thinking about you and watching everything that concerns you. - 1 Peter 5:7

Blog entry by:
Ryan Faison (QUEST/YAM Director)

QUEST Fall Semester 2011 Entry #18: "Don't Call It A Comeback"

Entry #18: "Don't Call It A Comeback"

In the media saturated culture of our day, the general public loves to hear comeback stories. Whether it is a Hollywood star, an athlete, a politician or the down-trodden, comeback stories reminds us of hope of redemption. With a comeback of someone in the public eye, it is announced that their story is not over and a new chapter has just begun. The person who was villified yesterday can be lauded and hailed as a hero tomorrow. The person who was wallowing in the valley of life yesterday can find themselves celebrating on the mountaintop tomorrow. One day scorned, the next adored.

Privately, college students and young adults find themselves in the place of straining for a comeback. You may be yearning for the same. You may have been beset by sin, convicted of your behavior and corrected for the words you use. You may have betrayed a friend, gossiped, lied, cheated and even cheated yourself. And, now you wonder to yourself, "Can I ever get a second chance?" Comebacks are not designed only for media personalities; comebacks are designed in the Word of God for those who believe in the Lord Jesus Christ.

Scripture tells us:

“Blessed are those whose transgressions are forgiven, whose sins are covered. Blessed is the one whose sin the Lord will never count against them.” - Romans 4: 7-8

This portion of scripture is encouraging for it reminds us that those who are in Christ, are sins are covered and not counted against us. This is not a license to sin, but gives us assurance that when we do mess up and submit to God in humility and repentance, He is faithful and just to forgive our sins. It is already a finished work on Calvary. God is not only the God of the second chance, but innumerable chances. God will never give up on you.

You might have started this semester, started that job or that relationship, and you know you have missed the mark. You know that your behavior of late does not reflect holiness and righteousness. But, His grace is enough and He desires you to seek Him in relationship. In light of scripture, don't call it a comeback (like the world). Let's call it unconditional love.

Ryan E. Faison, M.Div.

Director, QUEST/YAM

Christ Church (Montclair and Rockaway, NJ)

Ryan E. Faison, M.Div., is the Director of the QUEST College Ministry and Young Adults Ministry of Christ Church, located in Montclair and Rockaway, New Jersey under the leadership of senior pastor, Dr. David Ireland. Ryan has served as a conference speaker at the New Jersey State Department’s MLK Youth Leadership Conference, as well as a host of other conferences and seminars. On a regular basis, Ryan serves the local church as a worship leader, teacher and a preacher of God’s Word. Ryan is a graduate of Seton Hall University, with a Bachelor of Arts in Political Science and a Master of Divinity from Nyack Alliance Theological Seminary. Ryan serves on the Alliance Theological Seminary’s Alumni Board as well as the Council of Faith and Spirituality at Montclair State University. Ryan recently wed his love and best friend, Kristyn Faison. Ryan’s passion is to build up the next generation as authentic servants and worshippers of God.



QUEST Fall Semester 2011 Entry #17: "The Power of Distractions" Part II

Here is Part II of "The Power of Distractions" by Brickhouse Director (The Potter's House, Dallas, Texas) Travis Simons! Thanks Travis!

Here are 7 helpful tips to breaking “The Power of Distractions”:
1. Confront your distractions. Many times individuals lack the courage to confront their distractions because they don’t really see the distraction as a distraction. You can’t be afraid to tell your friends that you will have to call them back. Or press, the IGNORE button on your phone. Right now is not to fix their situation, its your time to focus. SN: Many times the people that take up the majority of your time getting advice will never really take your advice!

2. Break the routine of your distractions. Distractions feed off of your life habits. Learn to anticipate its arrival. It’s arrival will always occur at or near the same time it visited you on previous occasions. So if you were distracted last Tuesday when you were on your way to the library to start researching information for a paper, then more than likely it will appear continuously at that time.

3. Be priority driven. Let your priorities drive your daily activities. Highly prioritized individuals are usually more effective in their studies not because they are smarter than you but because they are driven by the priorities verses distractions. You have a goal or a priority in mind so stay in tune with it. Get a visual of it and keep walking toward it.

4. Build healthy and effective study habits. Don’t try to do what others do but find what works for you. Some people like to study in the morning and some people like to study late at night. What works for you will work for you. In this season, you are solely responsible for your success.

5. Let your study time be study time and your play time be play time. Give time to rest, relax, go to the step shows, movies, etc. Effective time management come with your willingness.

6. Create an environment that will minimize your distractions. Find a coffee shop clear across town. Find a place that is away from things that will distract you. Don’t ever underestimate the power of your distractions. If you give a distraction an inch, it will take 5 miles.

7. Build on Momentum- “The most important thing you can do to achieve your goals is to make sure that as soon as you set them, you immediately begin to create momentum.”~Tony Robbins Your life is a flow. It’s your time to dream, build, grow, and flow.

Travis J.Simons, MDiv., Young Adult Director

The Potter's House of Dallas, TX.

tsimons@tdjakes.org

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Travis J. Simons is the director of Christian Education and leader of The Potter’s House Young Adult ministry called “The BrickHouse.” Simons is a great communicator with life and charisma. Simons also equips young adults with the knowledge needed to declare, communicate, and demonstrate Biblical principles.

Prior to joining The Potter’s House, Simons held several leadership positions under the tutelage of Bishop Joby Brady and Pastor Sheryl Brady of The River Church in Durham, N.C. While there, he served as associate pastor, youth pastor, college and career pastor and outreach minister. He also provided liturgical, advisory and protocol support for Bishop Joby Brady.

Travis Simons believes that he was purposed and prepared to break barriers and to build bridges across racial, denominational and education boundaries. In 2009, Simons earned a Master of Divinity degree (M.Div.) from Duke Divinity School and graduated with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Religion and Philosophy from Claflin University in Orangeburg, S.C. in 2005. Simons, his wife Nina and daughter Sydney Marie Simons reside in Dallas, TX.

QUEST Fall Semester 2011 Entry #15: "We Remember | 9.11.11"

The QUEST College Ministry and Young Adults Ministry remembers the heroic service and love shown during the tragic events of September 11, 2001. Let us continue to pray for the families who lost loved ones 10 years ago. In the light of terror threats in our world, we pray for our protection and safety.

QUEST Fall Semester 2011 Entry #14: "The Beauty of Surrender"

"I surrender all. I surrender all. All to Thee, my Blessed Savior, I surrender all." - "I Surrender All" Judson W. Van Deventer

The classic hymn of the Church, "I Surrender All" captures the heart of an intentional heart needing the Lord Jesus Christ. This song does not speak of religion; it speaks to relationship. Young adults live in a culture that does not look favorably on surrendering. The message in our world today is conquer and destroy. Conquer your fears, conquer your enemies, conquer and claim victory! The other destructive message is to destroy those who try to destroy you. Destroy the weak things and embrace all that appears to be strong. These messages are all around us. And when we hear anything about surrender, we tend to think of weakness, defeat and having no backbone.

When I think of the classic hymn cited above, I am convicted of the things that I have yet to surrender. If we were honest, there are areas of our lives that when examined closely, we have yet to give it up to the Lord. What is it that we have yet to yield to God? Is it the need for control? The insatiable appetite for affirmation and/or attention? Or could it be letting go of the fear that impedes growth? These questions require further examination and introspection. But, in order to embrace surrender, we must see the beauty in it. The beauty of surrender fulfills the Gospel truth in our lives that we are in need of a Savior.

One day, I remember driving and getting off an exit leading to the highway. This highway is busling with activity and the cars are maintaining a consistent speed. Before I could get on the highway, I needed to yield to the other cars. If I didn't, the probability of an accident or a catastrophic collision was higher. In order to get on the highway safely and to reach my destination, I had to yield. The same goes for us in our lives. If we are doing to reach our destiny, we must be willing to yield to the Person and The Gospel of Christ.

Blog Entry By: Ryan Faison (QUEST/YAM Director)

QUEST Fall 2011 Semester Entry #13: "The Attitude Shift"

"Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others." - Philippians 2:4

The QUEST College Ministry and Young Adults Ministry has started this blog for the purpose of connecting online with college students and young adults as they pursue their academic goals and grow or begin in their relationship with God. Along with our interaction, gatherings an initiatives, it is our prayer that you grow wholistically to be all that God has called you to become. Whether you are a new student or starting your last year in college, our message to you: We are here for you! If you are a young adult who is discovering your calling or career, our message to you: We are here for you! But, being there for someone is more than words. It must be shown and demonstrated as a lifestyle.

In our culture today, we have not always seen Philippians 2:4 in action. Our world seems inudated with those who are only concerned about me, myself, and I. Too often, too many are consumed with their own goals, ambitions, opportunities, and connections. And in the most tragic cases, some will trample over others to get where they think they should or need to be. A sad commentary, indeed. But, our culture tells us over the tv screens, radio/CDs, and movies that you need to "get yours". What does that mean? And when you "get yours", the question is: who do you have? I guess YOU.

Philippians 2:4 challenges us to think beyond ourselves and to turn our attention, not just to the needs of others, but their interests. By embracing this "challenge", you are positioning yourself to be counter cultural. Yet, your life is God-honoring and benefits more than just you, your family and those who you hang with. You begin to see your life developing into what God intended - Christlikeness. It is a life shift, a focus shift, and an attitude shift.

Blog Entry By: Ryan Faison (QUEST/YAM Director)

QUEST Fall Semester 2011 Entry #12: "Can I Really Move A Mountain?"

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. (Proverbs 3:5-6)

I have many wonderful childhood memories, but during one of my recent devotional times, God reminded me of when I was 4 years old. It's probably one of the only memories I have from that age. I became increasingly adamant about the fact that I wanted a little brother. Everyday, I would tell my mom to have a baby. In the best way she knew how, she explained that she could no longer have children, so I would have to ask God. What I could not understand, is that after having me my mother had medical complications and did not expect to have any more children. Everyday I began to pray. I would walk over to her, lay hands on her stomach with a faith that was unwavering and say, "Lord, let mommy have a baby boy, so I can play fight with him." I was not educated in the doctrinal teachings of faith and did not speak with an eloquent approach, I just believed. Pastor David uses the acronym Full Assurance In The Heart, which perfectly depicts the simplicity of FAITH. There is no pre-requisite to the use of FAITH except belief. FAITH does not discriminate based on age, race or gender, it's uncomplicated. I knew nothing except the God controlled everything and that was all I needed to pray. Two years later, I saw my prayers manifest when my mother gave birth to a baby boy and never struggled in that area of her health again.

Perhaps you are now endeavoring on a new school, new job or find yourself in the same place and in need of something new. Perhaps you are experiencing difficulty with your family, finances or in your relationships. I encourage you to be reminded of that blind child like FAITH, we all once had. Childlike faith offers belief that has not been tainted by life experience, hurt or doubt, so when you pray today remember to simply believe and you will move that mountain.

Blog Entry by: Esmeralda Lopez

Esmeralda Lopez was born and raised in the church and made her initial commitment to Christ at the age of eight. Presently, Esmeralda is part of the Christ Church worship ministry. As a member of the Young Adults Ministry, Esmeralda serves as a Life Group Leader and a new Prayer Leader for Quest College Ministry & Young Adults Ministry. Esmeralda currently manages a condominium in Fort Lee, NJ. She enjoys singing, dancing, poetry, writing, acting, musical theatre, and arts & crafts.

QUEST Fall Semester 2011 Entry #11: "What Are You Looking At?"

The eye is the lamp of your body; when your eye is clear, your whole body also is full of light; but when it is bad, your body also is full of darkness. - Luke 11:34

There is an old adage that says, "The eye is the window to the soul". Although this statement is not found anywhere in the Scriptures, the Word of God does say that the eye is the lamp of your body. In the Scripture above, it says that when your eye is clear, your whole body is full of light. This passage bears the questions: What are you looking at? What are your eyes drawn to? Where have you placed your focus?

The first question needs to be examined deeply. Sometimes, we find ourselves looking at things that do not bring life to our souls and hope to our situations. Let's be real: Some of the "stuff" we look at it we know is wrong. It is not limited to media, but think about it: What movies do you watch? What do you find entertaining? Do you find yourself wrapped up in sexually-explicit material? When you allow your eyes to be locked in on what is morally corrupt, your whole body is full of darkness. As you start this semester, do you want this to be the case? You have a choice and let's choose wisely.

What are your eyes drawn to? Your eyes needs to be focused on that which will edify you, challenge you to go higher and push you to go deeper in God. Reading the Scriptures, reading books on skill development, watching movies/documentaries that will build rather than destroy are changes that can be made right now. Focus your eyes on your goals and not what you don't have. This determination to concentrate on your future rather than on your past will bear benefits beyond your years.

As you enter this semester, what your eyes focus on will be a part of your growth or will be a part of your stalling. I highly doubt that anyone reading this entry wants to stall where they are. If this is the case, then choose to evaluate what you look at. And, some may be in the case where we are not looking at anything because we are sleep spiritually. I challenge you to wake up and start focusing on the things God has purposed you to do. Our generation needs you! Ask yourself today: What are you looking at?

Blog Entry By: Ryan Faison (QUEST/YAM Director)

QUEST Fall Semester 2011 Entry #10: "Making Healthy Choices"

"Don't be impressed with your own wisdom. Instead, fear the Lord and turn your back on evil. Then you will gain renewed health and vitality." - Proverbs 3:7-8 (NLT)

If you are a new student experiencing college life or returning to the familiar campus, one of the most important lessons you can learn is keeping your body healthy. The amazing thing is that God created your body. As a steward or carekeeper of your body, it is important that you take good care of it. You only get one this side of heaven. Here are some practical tips:

(1) Physical Exercise
Your schedule may be hectic, but make room for physical exercise. You may like sports, going to the campus gym or recreational center or walking/running around the track. Rather than taking an elevator, use the stairs. Some changes in your physical activity routine can make a huge difference in your physical health, energy, and stamina.

(2) Good Nutrition
I know the campus food and options may lean heavily on fatty foods and quick snacks. But, in this area, intentionality is the key. You should not deprive yourself of a treat here and there. But, for your daily intake of food, start making some choices for healthy snacks (fruits and veggies). Rather than soda or juice, try drinking more water. Watch how late you eat as well for digestive purposes. Encourage your friends to do the same. When I was in college, these choices were difficult, but had to be learned. You may find the habit of eating healthy a welcomed change.

(3) Keep a Journal
Some people do this differently: writing, keeping a personal blog, video blog, etc. However you decide to do it, keeping a health journal helps you see how much you are intaking and how much you are expending during the day. I was surprised to see how many calories I was eating and the lack of exercise I was doing. Sometimes seeing it helps you change your patterns.

These are a few tips to get you started. Making healthy choices is not just about your image, but maintaining a healthy lifestyle. If you want to be strong and full of vitality in your college years and beyond, your healthy choices now will make all the difference.

Book Recommendations:
What the Bible Says about Healthy Living by Rex Russell
The Seven Pillars of Health by Don Colbert, MD

Blog Entry By: Ryan Faison (QUEST/YAM Director)

QUEST Fall Semester 2011 Entry #9: "What Are You Waiting For?"

“Work hard and become a leader; be lazy and never succeed.”  Proverbs 12:24 TLB

Let's be real: At one time or another, each of us may have procrastinated on "something". It might have been a project, an assignment, an e-mail that needed to be sent, a phone call that needed to be made or quite possibly, a prayer that needed to be said. Due to the lives many of us lead, we can always find an excuse or a valid reason of why we waited or delayed. But, as you start the semester, the question is this: "What are you waiting for?" Procrastination can impede on your progress and taint your character. As a student, you never want to be in the category of the "non-dependable ones."

The Scripture shares a profound truth that if you work hard, you are bound to be a leader. It may not be a leader of a corporation or a organization. But, your work ethic demonstrates leadership in this area and mastering a discipline that alludes too many. Conversely, being lazy bears fruit, but not the kind you want to reap. You have a hard time in succeeding and improving upon your successes. Laziness creeps in very subtledly and before we know it, the rope of laziness is binding us up from reaching our goals and being the person God has created us to be.

This semester, if you have a project or assignment due, what are you waiting for? Get'er done! As you balance and use time management skills, you will find more time for leisure, relaxation and rejuvenation. You will not be as tired, as stressed and as annoyed. Watch out for doing things the night before or pulling an all-nighter for no reason. Some may think this is part of the "college experience", but you may find that this practice becomes a habit and becomes a "life experience" that you never intended to embrace. Let's stop waiting and procrasinating. "A New Start" means adopting healthy and wise habits that will produce positive results.

Blog Entry By: Ryan Faison (QUEST/YAM Director)

QUEST Fall Semester 2011 Entry #8: "Making Room For Worship"

Starting and returning to college life is a transition for the novice as well as the most seasoned young person. And you will not be the exception. Keeping a balance on life's demands is of utmost importance, especially since one of your goals is to succeed and prosper. Since this is the case, we cannot dismiss this important truth: Worshipping the Lord must be a part of your daily existence! Why? We don't approach worship to find God but to be found by Him. We come to God in order to express our gratitude for who He is, not simply for what His hand provides. We come to say, "I would not be in college if it were not for You, Lord!"

I remember talking to a college student who went away to school in upstate New York. One of the challenges they faced was finding a church while in school. And some of you may be in the same position. As you are searching for a place of worship (which we, QUEST, will be happy to assist you in), you can create a place of worship where you are. The fellowship of brothers and sisters in Christ is vitally important to your spiritual growth and development. But, after Saturday or Sunday have passed, what does your life of worship look like? Worship is not only a time or a place, but a lifestyle.

Mark 12:30 says the following:

"You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength."

This expression of love is through your lifestyle of worship. Make room for it. Before going to class, worship the Lord through your praise and devotion. Before studying for an exam, worship the Lord and seek His face to give you the wisdom to study smarter, not harder. Before doing something that you know would not be right in the eyes of God, worship. I can guarantee that a conviction will rise within you to refrain and to find something worthwhile to do with your time (other than that!). Make room for worshipping God; watch God make room for all He has in you!

Blog Entry By: Ryan Faison, QUEST/YAM Director

Special Announcement: Young Adults Live featuring Rockin' the Nations!

SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT

Young Adults Live featuring Rockin' The Nations

http://www.rockinthenations.com/

Join the QUEST College Ministry and Young Adults Ministry for Young Adults Live on Friday, September 23, 2011 at 8 PM featuring guest artist "Rockin' The Nations" (http://www.rockinthenations.com/). QUEST/YAM Director Ryan Faison will be speaking and presenting on the topic, "IDENTITY: WHO ARE YOU?"

QUEST Fall Semester 2011 Entry #7: "Encourage Yourself in Who?"

ENTRY #7: "ENCOURAGE YOURSELF IN WHO?"

David encouraged himself in the Lord His God. (1 Samuel 30:6)

In Samuel 30, we find a discouraging and devastating scene. King David returns to his home in Ziklag to find it burned by fire and the women and children taken by the Amalekites. The Scriptures describe a scene too hard to explain and even worse to imagine. The men wept bitterly. They were overwhelmed by the grief and dire circumstances that surrounded them. His band of soldiers return to home that signifies rest and they find unrest. The Word of God says that the men wept so much that they were exhausted from weeping. Have you ever experienced this type of grief and sadness? 

The sadness turned into anger toward David, their leader. Their sadness turned into bitterness. Their bitterness turned into contemplating stoning David. All other options did not meet their distress. And verse 6 of 1 Samuel Chapter 30 says, "...David encouraged himself (or strengthened himself) in the Lord His God." When his enemies were against him and his band of soldiers railed against him, he found himself in the position to encourage himself, even when his life was on the line. It wasn't encouragement in himself, but in His God, the Lord of Heaven and Earth. 

As a college student, you will find the need to encourage yourself in the Lord. Friends may turn away. Family may not understand. Even well meaning individuals may miss it. But, your situation and circumstances needs to be infused with the encouragement in your relationship with God and His love for you. Encouraging yourself in the Lord means to speak over yourself with words of hope, not despair. It means ending the self talk of negativity and replace it with the enternal words of covenant with God. Don't let this semester be one of self-doubt or embracing the doubts of others. Today, start the pattern of encouraging yourself with words that speak life. As the Donald Lawrence and Tri-City Singers song says, "...Speak over yourself, encourage yourself in the Lord." Remind yourself...when nothing and no one else will encourage you, the Lord is always equipped with encouragement for your soul. Count on it!  

Blog Entry by: Ryan Faison (QUEST/YAM Director)